I’ve been reading a book, Wedding Zen, by Susan Elia MacNeal. I just wanted to share some wisdom from this book.
Introduction:
“Congratulations-you’re engaged!
Getting married is supposed to be one of the happiest times of your life. So why are you feeling so stressed.
Well, relax. Even the most sane and balanced person can feel a bit, er, challenged while planning a wedding. And it’s okay to feel frazzled; in fact, it’s perfectly normal. Most people have a moment or two-or five-where they’re ready to elope to Las Vegas.
Wedding planning can get crazy. There are a lot of expectations, and a lot of pressure. Everything (and everyone) around you is changing. Whether you’re trying to lose fifty pounds in five months to zip up a certain dress, fighting the urge to spend too much money, or coping with divorced parents who are bickering over seating arrangements, you may find yourself in some anxiety-provoking situations.
Which is where Wedding Zen can help.
Zen is a philosophy for living that’s compatible with any religion. It’s about being aware, present, and real. It’s about living in the now and taking the Middle Way. And it’s about practicing nonattachment-making plans, but holding onto them lightly. With a little Zen perspective, you’ll be able to relax, free yourself from excessive material and emotional needs, and be more compassionate and honest. You’ll plan your wedding with love, kindness, and humor. As a result, your wedding will be a relaxed, genuine, and truly joyous occasion.
Making a lifelong commitment to the person you love, in the midst of family and friends, is something to clebrate. No matter the style, size, or location of your wedding, the most important thing is for you to delight in the feeling in your hear.
After all, every day is “the big day,” when you really think about it.”

I’ve enjoyed the author’s insight. So far this is a great read and is available on Amazon for any of you that may be interested. Enjoy!